1. You must lead in the areas you want your team to lead in.

Everyone has probably heard the saying; “You can’t lead where you haven’t been.” I’ve personally heard this saying in about every worship/leadership conference I have attended. However, it is so true. If you want your team to connect spiritually during the week, if you want your team to come prepared knowing all the songs and their parts, if you want the team to genuinely pursue God’s presence and display excellence in their craft, YOU HAVE TO LEAD IN THOSE AREAS FIRST. In saying this, I am not saying once you lead in these areas, all your team members are going to miraculously become perfect and all your leadership problems will be solved (If anyone has that secret, feel free to share.) However, I am saying that excellence and “buy in” are a process. However, we need to display the pursuit of it and not expect our team to do something we ourselves aren’t pursuing/doing.

2. Whoever is closest to the broom does the work.

I was first introduced to this phrase via Pastor Stan Mitchell when he came and spoke at one of our launch team meetings back in May. This phrase has stuck with me ever since. When being part of a church plant, or a church in general I believe, you need to become ok with doing tasks that aren’t specific to “your job description.” This is something that also needs to be transferred, taught and displayed to your team. Our pastor always says, “We must never allow title or position to dictate what we are willing to do. And more will get done when we are not worried about who gets the credit.” I can say our pastor easily displays this to our team not only on Sundays, but in his day-to-day living as well. This makes it an easy transfer to our team, not just as a fancy saying, but something we live and breathe at Connect.

3. Always have the bigger vision in mind, so that the daily obstacles will never hold you back.

Recently, I read this quote somewhere, and it has really helped me put words to many situations that can be discouraging or uncomfortable. As leaders, no matter how much vision we lay out or jot down or how organized we are, we all have those days where we ask ourselves, “Seriously?” Something that has really been an encouragement to me lately is when something doesn’t go as planned, learning to step back and put things in perspective. One thing that helps with this is reading or hearing other people’s stories. Hearing stories of people starting churches in libraries, setting up church every Sunday at 5:00 a.m., only having one keyboard player as your total band, makes my what seems to be catastrophic problem a little less catastrophic. So, in the moment when a musician doesn’t show up, or an audio guy calls in sick, or the song transition is a disaster, or the video playing doesn’t have audio to it because they didn’t un-mute the channel, just remember… it can always be worse.