Don’t Drink the Poison

 

I believe there is at least one poison that hinders gratitude, and that is comparison.

You have probably heard the saying, “Don’t compare your behind the scenes to someone else’s highlight reel.” Social media is especially a vehicle in which comparison can be unknowingly encouraged. There is the underlying pressure to let the world know that you are producing, you are important, people know you, you know people, you’ve seen things, and you’ve been places! These subconscious standards we place on ourselves can hinder us from being grateful for the truly fulfilling lives we do live. Let us not forget who God has placed in our direct sphere of influence, and where God has planted us for this season. Let us steward well the opportunities we do have, and not be so concerned with the ones we wish we had. For every season and every opportunity comes with preparation and a price. Don’t let the trap of comparison hinder your gratitude for the blessings currently sitting in your lap.

Comments

  1. Dudley Harris says

    Great wisdom. A seasoned minister said, “The only thing worse than criticism is praise.” I try not to listen to either one, except when coming from a trusted friend.

    • Elise Miller says

      Very true. I’m saving that quote. Trust and integrity play a huge role in accepting praise. When trusted friends, mentors and leaders who know you and are not impressed or intimidated by you give praise, it holds greater weight. Thanks for your input!

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